Second Date Protocol

We meet again.

 

No, no literally... we meet again.

 

So, you're gunnin' for that second date huh?

 

How do you know if she's into you? How do you know if she, will, in fact, go on a second date with you?

 

Obviously, this is all based off of chemistry. Maybe you felt the chemistry and she didn't... or vice versa. Or maybe you both felt it. Either way, don't make asking for a second date more awkward than it already is.

 

At the end of the first date, throw something out there like, "I had a really great time. Maybe we can do it again sometime?" and see what her reaction is. If she smiles, giggles, whatever and says something along the lines of "yeah, I'd like that!" you're in the clear. Anything else besides a "yes, yeah, cool sounds good," you're effed.

 

So don't ask her out again at the end of the first date. Wait a couple days (perhaps like a Tuesday!) and call her to see if she has plans for the weekend.

 

Girls don't like clingy. We want to play hard-to-get... but don't wait too long, or you might miss your window of opportunity to ask her out again.

 

Trust me, you want a couple days to think about her and what she's all about before you ask her out again, and she definitely does too.

 

So even if you're on the first date, and one of the parties (either you or her) aren't feeling the other one, you can at least get to the end of the date without having that awkward, "ummmm... I don't think this would work...."

 

 

Let me know if you have any questions, but asking her out on a second date shouldn't be anything too out-of-this-world complicated.

 

And of course, if she says no....

 

She's just not that into you.