Why You Haven't Met Her Friends.

Okay, so you've been getting to know this girl. You start dating her, you get into a relationship with her, it's all gravy.

Time goes on and you realize that she spends most of her time with you and YOUR friends. The realization goes on and you suddenly notice that you haven't met ANY of her friends.

Your mind gets the best of you. You don't know why you have gone so long without meeting the "most important people in her life."

I would first like to point out that there can be a number of reasons why she has not done so yet.

1. If you don't have mutual friends - Maybe she doesn't have too many close friends and is embarrassed about it. Maybe she likes your friends more than her friends.

2. If she is embarrassed of you- this is more likely of a reason, when you peel back the onion, why you have not met her friends.

3. Her friends are more important to her than you are - Maybe she feels that the relationship isn't going anywhere and she doesn't want to introduce you to her friends unless you're stickin around.

4. She likes "her" time alone with her friends - maybe she likes having the seperation. In this case, she loves spending time with you, but she wants your time to be your time and friends time to be friends time.

5. She's cheating on you - I know this sounds harsh, but if she is keeping her friends away from you, maybe she is hiding something.

Obviously there are a few more but these, I think, are the 5 main reasons that she would introduce you to her friends.

The only way to get out of this is if you confront her (kindly) and ask her why she hasn't introduced you yet. She will most likely come up with some kind of excuse, and that is when you need to be a little pushy. Don't yell, don't scream, but ask her kindly.

If you aren't eager to meet her friends, then don't push the issue.

If you are, and she gives you some BS excuse, she's just not that into you ;)